FLASH CODER TO EMBED FLASH PLAYER INTO MY VIDEO

I need a FLV player embeded with my short video. The video player must fit around the small video properly. I might need help with installing the video onto my website. I use XSitePro Version 2 to build my website. When the webpage is opened I want the video to start and stop on the first frame of the video, so the website visitors can read the text introduction on the video before they press the play button. I want the video to stop on the last frame when the video done playing, so the website visitor can read the text message. I want the video player to be simple with a Play button, stop, pause, progress bar with time. I want the sound to play on both the right and left speakers. I will own the copyright.